<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><title>boys &amp; girls @ scribblefaster.blog-city.com</title><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/</link><description>(boys &amp; girls) </description><copyright>Copyright 2008 scribblefaster.blog-city.com</copyright><generator></generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 03:44:00 GMT</lastBuildDate><image><title>boys &amp; girls @ scribblefaster.blog-city.com</title><url>http://server1.blog-city.com/images/bc_v5_logo_small.gif</url><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/</link></image><ttl>360</ttl><docs>http://backend.userland.com/rss</docs><item><title>how we know</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/how_we_know.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/how_we_know.htm</link><pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2005 21:13:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=how%5Fwe%5Fknow</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Erin asked me if he made my head fuzzy and my stomach do flips and I told her no, that was the problem. I liked him fine but didn't feel that way around him, so I was confused about what to do next. It was almost two years ago, and we stood in the]]></description></item><item><title>something new</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/something_new.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/something_new.htm</link><pubDate>Sun, 16 Oct 2005 03:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=something%5Fnew</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I emailed him and thirty other people at the end of a long, tired summer. "Come to our bout," I said, and thought "Why not?" I wasn't surprised when he didn't show, though I'd thought I might hear from him. You never know. At the afterparty I was]]></description></item><item><title>attraction, as illustrated by</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/attraction_as_illustrated_by.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/attraction_as_illustrated_by.htm</link><pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2005 03:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=attraction%5Fas%5Fillustrated%5Fby</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[It was a Friday afternoon which meant it was an afternoon for musing and joking and unimportant conversations to distract from the piles of work. Jay and I emailed back and forth about the nature of attraction. "I don't put that much emphasis on the]]></description></item><item><title>but life is not the movies</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/but_life_is_not_the_movies.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/but_life_is_not_the_movies.htm</link><pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2005 03:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=but%5Flife%5Fis%5Fnot%5Fthe%5Fmovies</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[Here is how it would go in the movies: You spend months denying your attraction, stating to all who will listen that you are not impressed, that he is not the man for you, that you outright loathe him. He is very loathable after all, the way he's]]></description></item><item><title>downward spiral</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/downward_spiral.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/downward_spiral.htm</link><pubDate>Tue, 04 Oct 2005 03:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=downward%5Fspiral</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I liked a boy once who was bad news. When we met he seemed sweet as could be, and spent the entire night saying how unworthy he was to be talking to me. But he was clever and witty and talking to him was like talking to someone I'd known for years an]]></description></item><item><title>ten months, circle back</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/ten_months_circle_back.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/ten_months_circle_back.htm</link><pubDate>Mon, 03 Oct 2005 03:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=ten%5Fmonths%5Fcircle%5Fback</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[The problem, I told Josh, was that the boys I wanted didn't want me - I wasn't their type. But the boys who want me aren't my type. So there's never any match and it's really frustrating."What type are they, and what type do you like?" aske]]></description></item><item><title>if you&apos;re not on one side, you&apos;re on the other</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/if_youre_not_on_one_side_youre_on_the_other.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/if_youre_not_on_one_side_youre_on_the_other.htm</link><pubDate>Mon, 03 Oct 2005 03:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=if%5Fyoure%5Fnot%5Fon%5Fone%5Fside%5Fyoure%5Fon%5Fthe%5Fother</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I met a guy the other night, a perfectly nice, perfectly lovely guy who I had only the most basic platonic interest in, but somehow ended up in a situation where he asked me out to a show and I had to say no thank you.]]></description></item><item><title>self-determination</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/selfdetermination.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/selfdetermination.htm</link><pubDate>Fri, 13 May 2005 04:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=selfdetermination</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[in may 2004 there was a boy and there was a leaving and there was a misunderstanding about intentions, and so i wrote something i thought was true. i didn't post it then, afraid it was too specific, revealed too much, would be misconstrued. then tim]]></description></item><item><title>the ships are aimed at the future; the rockets towards the stars</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/the_ships_are_aimed_at_the_future_the_rockets_towards_the_stars_1.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/the_ships_are_aimed_at_the_future_the_rockets_towards_the_stars_1.htm</link><pubDate>Thu, 12 May 2005 04:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=the%5Fships%5Fare%5Faimed%5Fat%5Fthe%5Ffuture%5Fthe%5Frockets%5Ftowards%5Fthe%5Fstars%5F1</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[If he could be dismissive, she could be dismissive. If he could be past it all, onward and upward, looking only forward to the future, so could she. Her list was longer after all, the list of things she wanted to do, all the dreams she knew she'd wi]]></description></item><item><title>for the archetype&apos;s girlfriend</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/for_the_archetypes_girlfriend.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/for_the_archetypes_girlfriend.htm</link><pubDate>Thu, 14 Apr 2005 04:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=for%5Fthe%5Farchetypes%5Fgirlfriend</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[(find your context here)&quot;She was crazy,&quot; he said, because they always say this. Sometimes with an eyeroll. Sometimes with a head shake. Crazy. She demanded. She demanded and did not listen and she made him crazy so she must be instead. She]]></description></item><item><title>sometimes we get our wish</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/sometimes_we_get_our_wish.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/sometimes_we_get_our_wish.htm</link><pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2005 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=sometimes%5Fwe%5Fget%5Four%5Fwish</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[on january 31, 2005 I emailed Laurel. i just talked to my boss about all my work issues (more $$, or at least a title change for extra work) and he promised nothing and said there probably wasn't cash, which i knew. but he was receptive and i did i]]></description></item><item><title>alone in a room with your stomach in knots</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/alone_in_a_room_with_your_stomach_in_knots.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/alone_in_a_room_with_your_stomach_in_knots.htm</link><pubDate>Fri, 04 Mar 2005 04:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=alone%5Fin%5Fa%5Froom%5Fwith%5Fyour%5Fstomach%5Fin%5Fknots</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[A few months ago, I was emailing a friend who was unsure how to deal with a relationship, unsure how she felt about the person she'd been seeing, unsure about what to do. I wrote this to her: &quot;i sort of think that if you need to be around some]]></description></item><item><title>so life affirming and yet, so useless</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/so_life_affirming_and_yet_so_useless.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/so_life_affirming_and_yet_so_useless.htm</link><pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2005 04:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=so%5Flife%5Faffirming%5Fand%5Fyet%5Fso%5Fuseless</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[A Few Signs You May Have A CrushUncontrollable giggling (girls only) and/or grinningNeedless mentions of potential crush. Particularly in stories where you have not contextualized them as a crush, where you are just mentioning them &quot;casually&q]]></description></item><item><title>there is nothing for you here: part six</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/there_is_nothing_for_you_here_part_six.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/there_is_nothing_for_you_here_part_six.htm</link><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jan 2005 15:16:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=there%5Fis%5Fnothing%5Ffor%5Fyou%5Fhere%5Fpart%5Fsix</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[The Cutest Boy in New York has a girlfriend.After five months of empty subway cars and boring walks to work, I saw him again this morning, trudging through the tunnel to transfer trains. I only noticed him because I was looking at the jacket of the g]]></description></item><item><title>where the heart is</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/where_the_heart_is.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/where_the_heart_is.htm</link><pubDate>Thu, 23 Dec 2004 04:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=where%5Fthe%5Fheart%5Fis</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[two years ago I came home for christmas heartbroken. or about to be. in November I'd met a young man who electrified every nerve ending and charged every air particle and who made me rethink my previous thoughts on dealing cautiously with the opposit]]></description></item><item><title>some recent trends: part one</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/some_recent_trends_part_one_1.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/some_recent_trends_part_one_1.htm</link><pubDate>Thu, 09 Dec 2004 04:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=some%5Frecent%5Ftrends%5Fpart%5Fone%5F1</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I've been talking to people about their relationships quite alot, which is how I usually spend the majority of my time. I'm endlessly fascinated by how people get together with friends and boyfriends and girlfriends. Perhaps the ten divorces in my i]]></description></item><item><title>part five</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/part_five.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/part_five.htm</link><pubDate>Wed, 17 Nov 2004 04:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=part%5Ffive</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I was waiting for the subway this morning and realized I hadn't seen the cutest boy in new york in a long time. despite being late as always. It's strange, I thought, how sometimes your timing is dead-on and you can run into a person over and over]]></description></item><item><title>midnight ghost stories</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/midnight_ghost_stories.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/midnight_ghost_stories.htm</link><pubDate>Tue, 16 Nov 2004 04:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=midnight%5Fghost%5Fstories</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[I was up until 3am last night, insomniac. the can of caffeinated soda I'd had at 10pm didn't help, or the list of things I had to do, productivity I could be achieving if my body didn't insist on eight full hours. but it was more than that. my bed fe]]></description></item><item><title>something else</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/something_else.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/something_else.htm</link><pubDate>Wed, 20 Oct 2004 04:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=something%5Felse</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[It was a disastrous first date, full of mixed signals and covered by a haze of confusion and followed all night by old dates trailing the proceedings like idealized ghosts. But even so, there was a moment, a moment when she entered the bar's back ro]]></description></item><item><title>a short play for a long weekend</title><guid isPermaLink="true">http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/a_short_play_for_a_long_weekend.htm</guid><link>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/a_short_play_for_a_long_weekend.htm</link><pubDate>Tue, 12 Oct 2004 04:59:00 GMT</pubDate><comments>http://scribblefaster.blog-city.com/console/comments/popup/?f=a%5Fshort%5Fplay%5Ffor%5Fa%5Flong%5Fweekend</comments><dc:creator>meg danger</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[When Exes Come to Visit, Your Hopes Can't Be Low Enough:A Long Holiday Weekend in Three ActsACT ONEGirl: Hey what's up? How are you?Boy: I am guarded and unwilling to admit to it no matter how many times you make attempts to bring up the awkwardne]]></description></item></channel></rss>